This all came to me in a rush so it will take time to properly digest but I understand her message. Focus. To be who I want, to get where I want I need to lose the distractions and focus on my goals. Really put in the time because I will never be great, never be wise if I never concentrate, never focus. So the lesson has been taught, the message received loud and clear. No more wasting time. This witch needs to knuckle down and work.